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How to Survive Death and Other Inconveniences
(a memoir in essays)
Gold Star in Forword Reviews INDIE Book of the Year Award in "memoir/autobiography." (And a finalist in the category of "humor.")
The 2021 Clara Johnson Award for Women's Literature, The Jane's Story Press Foundation
One of 100: "The Best of the University Presses: 100 books to escape the news--selected from new books or favorite releases from any point in time."
"One of 9 essay collections feminists should read in 2020" ~~ BITCH MEDIA
One of BIG OTHER'S "most anticipated Small Press Books of 2020"
"One of 11 memoirs by unbreakable woman" ~~ She Reads
now available...and thank you so very much!
FORTHCOMING~~ACETYLENE TORCH SONGS: Writing True Stories to Ignite the Soul~~Available for pre-order
"Sue William Silverman's Acetylene Torch Songs is a gift for creative nonfiction writers, and a guiding light: offering a holistic and hands-on approach to writing our memories, our obsessions, and ourselves; this is a gorgeous book of body and mind, of heart and soul. In the truest sense it's also a torch: one we might carry with us as we write, as we dig into the dark corners of our lives, making our stories burn bright." —Melissa Faliveno, author of Tomboyland
"I love everything about this collection. The hothouse phrasing inside the elegant spareness on the page. The strange song of the ordinary. The natural wildness of the unspeakable. Every line in every poem in Crayon Colors for Serial Killers is jam packed with the music of life and devastation—Silverman its dazzling singer."
Alice Anderson, author, Some Bright Morning I'll Fly Away
Crayon Colors for Serial Killers, true to its title, mixes childlike whimsy and mortal anger. In a time of pandemics of violence and viruses, unmasked systems of oppression and masked faces trying not to inhale, Sue William Silverman turns to haiku and persona poetry to settle and jostle our collective nerves. Her haiku, the Japanese poetic form of close attention, highlights our collective loneliness and sudden crystalline observation of a world gone scary-lonely: "Eat heart, soul, you sky-/eyed girl, ghost face unmasked glass / facade of cracked moon." By contrast, "The Serial Killer" persona poems (another kind of masking) are fantastical romps through a woman's daily encounters with others, imaginations of empowerment that hold off the fear and vulnerability that we're all feeling these days.--Philip Metres, author, Shrapnel Maps
Sue William Silverman's Crayon Colors for Serial Killers scalpels into the dark corners of human experience. These sharp poems sting, menace, and reckon with the dread of our time.
~~Tomás Q. Morin, author, Machete
SELECT BOOK PRAISE (all books)
"Beautiful, rocketing prose." The Tallahassee Democrat
"Compelling.... Silverman explores the psychology of addiction on a deeply personal level. Candid, emotionally raw...never sugarcoated...deeply moving." Booklist
“The Pat Boone Fan Club: My Life as a White Anglo-Saxon Jew is a series of riveting essays about growing up Jewish in a Gentile world by the accomplished memoirist Silverman.... A masterly stylist continues her uncompromising examination of the inner life.” Kirkus Reviews
“Silverman’s language is, by turns, blunt, wrenching, sophisticated, lyrical, tender, hilarious. She writes with wicked dark humor, splendid intelligence, wry wit, and honest confrontation. There’s no other book quite like it.” Lee Martin, author of From Our House
“Although many of the topics and themes in these essays are somber and sincere, Silverman’s ever-present humor sets a self-deprecating tone. . ." newpages.com
“Silverman’s writing is very alive. As a reader you feel immersed in her world, not just seeing it but feeling, tasting and smelling it.” The New Book Review
“Silverman is the Tennessee Williams of memoir.” Robert Vivian, author of The Least Cricket of Evening
"Love Sick provides an honest and deeply chilling account of what it's like to suffer from a compulsion to look for love in what are most definitely all the wrong places." Francine Prose, Elle
"A self-proclaimed addict looks unflinchingly at the source of her sickness and her road to recovery." O (the Oprah Magazine)
"In the existing literature on sexual addiction, this book stands alone: a woman's narrative of her own personal story. As self-help, Love Sick will resonate with not only those who suffer from sexual addiction, but also anyone whose compulsive behavior, whether with drugs, money, or food, threatens his or her emotional well-being. And as memoir, Silverman's account is an important literary accomplishment, one that will move anyone who reads it." recoveryworld.com
"Silverman's stark story of struggle and recovery, told without jargon or psychobabble, creates a wrenching portrait many women will relate to--a portrait of someone who is looking for love, but finds sex instead." Lifetime-TV
"Fearless Confessions is such a dynamic guide to memoir writing it has inspired me to completely refine and retool the memoir I’m working on. Sue William Silverman, a faculty advisor at the Vermont College of Fine Arts, is an amazing master of the language. Her prose is as enjoyable as it is instructive. This should be an essential textbook of any creative writing course. She gives examples of memoir pieces and analyzes each one, showing how they work, why they’re powerful, and even why some fail to impress." 15-Minutes Magazine
"Silverman's lyric style transforms a ravaged childhood into a work of art. The book reads like a poem." St. Petersburg Times
"A rough emotional ride, but it is well worth it." Ms. Magazine
"Profoundly moving in its portrait of a child's fear, confusion, and desperate search for a safe place." Kirkus Review
“I want to recommend…Sue William Silverman's lively memoir as essays, 'The Pat Boone Fan Club.'” John Warner, Chicago Tribune, The Biblioracle: Savor Your Reading
I speak on such topics as sexual addiction, child abuse prevention, spirituality, and family dynamics. I deliver presentations at colleges and universities, professional conferences, and social service organizations.
I also speak about the importance of writing your life story.
I have appeared on many national radio and television programs such as The View, Anderson Cooper-360, CNN-Headline News, the Discovery Channel, a John Stossel Special on ABC-TV, the Montel Williams Show, the Ricki Lake Show, the Morning Show with Mike and Juliet, and PBS Books. She was also featured in an episode of "The Secret Lives of Women" on WE-TV.
I teach writing at the low-residency MFA program at Vermont College of Fine Arts.
A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM SUE
One book. Two books. Three. Four. Why have I written four memoirs?
Even though each of my memoirs stands alone in and of itself, still, there are connections as I move from terror in Because I Remember Terror, Father, I Remember You...to edgy danger in Love Sick: One Woman's Journey through Sexual Addiction...to a deepening search for identity (both ironic and spiritual) in The Pat Boone Fan Club: My Life as a White Anglo-Saxon Jew. Now, in my fourth memoir, How to Survive Death and Other Inconveniences, I explore the ultimate unknown--even as the book is also an exploration on how to survive life!
On this path from book to book, there is also a movement from darkness to light to intense questioning -- and from danger to humor – or, at least, in The Pat Boone Fan Club and How to Survive Death and Other Inconveniences, black humor! As these narratives flow one into the other, my life clarifies. I emerge from the journey more whole, more “me,” more aware, and less conflicted.
With Fearless Confessions: A Writer's Guide to Memoir, I share my experiences learning how to write, with the hope it'll help and encourage you to tell your story, too.
In my two poetry collections, Hieroglyphics in Neon and, my newest, If the Girl Never Learns, I'm able to explore life, metaphoric life, using different images from my prose.
For more information about my books, please click on "Sue's Books."